To forgive or to stay mad? That is the question that has echoed through the corridors of my mind since the day I crossed paths with a certain superior from my distant past.
Allow me to paint the scene: it was many moons ago when this individual entered my professional sphere, harbouring a disdain for me that seemed to permeate the very air we breathed. Despite my unwavering dedication and stellar performance, I soon discovered a web of deceit woven behind my back. Lies circulated, tarnishing my reputation, while this same individual reaped the rewards of my hard work without so much as a nod in my direction.
Then, like a bolt from the blue, I found myself ousted from my role, left to pick up the shattered fragments of my professional pride. In the wake of such injustice, the question of forgiveness loomed large.
Should I extend an olive branch to someone who trampled on my kindness? Or to those who swiftly halt my promising consulting work, quicker than they once pleaded for my assistance, all in the guise of corporate politics? Or to a colleague who preached teamwork while conveniently shifting blame onto others?
Now, don't get me wrong - I'm no stranger to forgiveness. I've pardoned slights and misunderstandings with the ease of a seasoned diplomat. But what irks me is the notion that forgiveness has become a mandatory checkbox, rather than a deeply personal journey.
For me, holding onto my grievances is not a sign of weakness but a testament to my own standards and self-respect. It's a reminder that forgiveness should be earned, not freely dispensed like candy on Halloween.
Sure, I can forgive the minor transgressions - the forgotten birthdays and harmless venting behind my back. After all, we're all guilty of a little insensitivity from time to time. But when it comes to matters of integrity and respect, forgiveness becomes a far weightier decision.
So, as I navigate the murky waters of forgiveness and fury, I do so with a steadfast resolve - to hold onto my righteous indignation when necessary, and to extend grace when it feels right. Because in the end, forgiveness isn't about absolving others of their sins; it's about reclaiming my own sense of worth and dignity. And that, is a journey worth taking. - A
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